The meaning of the lyrics of the song "Your Apartment" by the artist "Wallows"

In "Your Apartment" by Wallows, the narrator grapples with complicated feelings for an ex-lover who seems to be seeking solace after a painful breakup.

The first verse alludes to a night spent together, likely a mistake. He implies their relationship was doomed from the start ("It was always wrong") and hints at knowing more than he lets on ("There’s so much I could tell you…"). He avoids honest communication, hiding behind a "nightcap" of silence.

The chorus confronts accusations of not understanding. He defends himself, claiming they both "moved on" and he can "sympathize with your feelings." However, jealousy and curiosity gnaw at him: "Who’s been in your apartment?" He's unsure if she was vulnerable ("gave in") or simply seeking a replacement ("gave up").

Verse two reveals his own struggles ("I got stitches I’m still stitching up"), unable to reciprocate her feelings ("unfair to say, 'I love you'"). He's tired of her tears and unwillingness to communicate openly. Instead, she waits for him to make a move, to see "how it could be."

The final chorus and outro emphasize his obsession: "Who’s trying to get a signal?", "Wonder who’s been in your apartment?". He repeats his understanding, but the words sound more like self-reassurance than genuine empathy.